James T. Duffy

“Duf” was a man who faced life's challenges with extraordinary spirit and spunk. 

Diagnosed with diabetes at the young age of 18, he chose not to let the disease define

 him but rather embraced life wholeheartedly, calling himself “lucky.” 

Jim lived, as he wished, with courage, determination and meaningful connections. Friends and family 

were his source of joy and strength. He deeply cherished his wife, Susan, who was not only his wife of 39 years

 but partner in life and lifelong a caretaker even in his most difficult hours.  Their bond was a testament 

to enduring love and devotion. 

Coach’s passions shaped the man we all admired.  Jim liked football, as a matter of fact he once told 

Susan, “I don’t like football, I love it.”  Golf brought him both leisure and fellowship.  He found special

 fulfillment in commiserating with lifelong friends, sharing football tales with those who knew him best.

  Those bonds were never measured or ranked- they were equally valuable to Coach.  He treasured his pets, Molly and Daisy. 

 Jim was guided by love, loyalty, laughter, and friendships. His interest and knowledge of football, politics, golf, history 

and anything “Chicago” was remarkable.  Jim found immense happiness in his relationships with friends, always eager 

to share a laugh, a beer, and  stories dotted always by colorful expletives. Through every challenge and triumph, Jim 

embodied resilience and stubbornness. He taught us that life is not about the adversities we face; but the way we choose 

to overcome them.

Duf’s warmth, humor, and colorful language will forever be etched in our memories. While we mourn his passing, 

we celebrate the incredible life he lived.  

Jim, you will always remain in our hearts, an inspiration and a guiding light.

Instead of flowers, donate to the American Diabetes Association, enjoy a good round of golf, read a history book and cheer for the Bears.

Memorial on Sunday, July 13th from 2-7 PM  (Funeral service at 5 p.m.) at Cooney’s Funeral Home, 625 Busse Hwy., Park Ridge (847-685-1002). Interment private. 

For info Cooney Funeral Home,  (847) 685-1002 - www.cooneyfuneralhome.com.